I had to laugh when I read the following brief article from The Gottman Institute...but it's got an important point!

“Escape (the Piña Colada Song)” by Rupert Holmes is a beachy, karaoke favorite about a husband and wife who discover they were planning to cheat on each other.

A less catchy title for the song could be, “We Never Talked to Each Other Then Assumed Infidelity Was the Only Solution Rather Than Changing Our Communication Strategy (the Piña Colada Song)”

Everyone’s sense of relief is shared as the couple in the song updates their “Love Maps” and laugh about how they basically “Catfished” each other.

Their “same old dull routine” didn’t include room for champagne, piña coladas, or midnight lovemaking. Their relationship was, according to the lyrics, “a worn-out recording of a favorite song.”

How do you re-heat things in your relationship before...

Leslie Capps, creator of The Happy Relationships Guidebook, interviews Angeline M Hart, author of the Amazon bestseller, "Gorillas Make Great Lovers!"

Like an iceberg, it's important to be aware of what's "below the surface."

If you have been repeatedly attracting the WRONG kind of men, even though you try to avoid them, then there is something in your subconscious that is limiting your success.

Usually it is a PATTERN that you learned when you were younger. 

As a teenager, in your desire to find love, you may have gotten in with the wrong crowd?

Perhaps you observed your father being disrespectful, or even abusive toward your mother?

Maybe your first husband seemed like a great guy, but had a mean streak?

Has it started to seem like all men are jerks?

Or the nice ones are either gay or married?

I have some GOOD News and some BAD News.

First, the Good News...I can absolutely guarantee you there are MANY good men out there (not just gay or married, LOL)!

And, the Bad News....you are going to keep attracting the WRONG men, because the pattern is running in your subconscious.

It's wired into your brain, just like...