I had to laugh when I read the following brief article from The Gottman Institute...but it's got an important point!
“Escape (the Piña Colada Song)” by Rupert Holmes is a beachy, karaoke favorite about a husband and wife who discover they were planning to cheat on each other.
A less catchy title for the song could be, “We Never Talked to Each Other Then Assumed Infidelity Was the Only Solution Rather Than Changing Our Communication Strategy (the Piña Colada Song)”
Everyone’s sense of relief is shared as the couple in the song updates their “Love Maps” and laugh about how they basically “Catfished” each other.
Their “same old dull routine” didn’t include room for champagne, piña coladas, or midnight lovemaking. Their relationship was, according to the lyrics, “a worn-out recording of a favorite song.”
How do you re-heat things in your relationship before deciding to take out a personal ad (or, more likely, downloading Tinder)?
Create opportunities for adventure. Try new things together. Write a personal ad detailing things you’d like to try with your partner (then share it with them, rather than posting it).
Find a new tune. Together!
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