I could have been with the “Love of My Life!”
That’s what a friend sadly said to me, after reading our book: Gorillas Make Great Lovers!
First, I should tell you that my friend is a very successful businesswoman.
She has published several books and speaks at events all around the world.
So, I asked, “What happened?”
“Well,” she responded, “when I read your book and took the Quiz, I realized that my boyfriend was the Gorilla type.”
I was confused and said, “That’s good, isn’t it? I mean, my favorite type of men are the Gorillas.”
“Yes, he was good. We had a lot of fun together and all my friends liked him.”
“Well, so what went wrong?” I asked.
“I really loved him, and I knew he was smart, so I was sure he could move up the corporate ladder if he’d just apply himself.
But he kept being resistant and saying he was comfortable as he was.
I thought he was just being lazy, so I tried to encourage him to “better” himself.
I told him that if he got another degree, he could increase his income.
“Why would I do that?”, he asked. “I already have a nice house, a nice car, and can go on nice vacations. Why would I want to stress myself just to get more money?”
“I told him all the advantages of a position with more status because I thought he deserved better than just “nice.”
He still resisted and his lack of ambition drove me crazy!”
Then he broke up with me, saying, “I’m never going to be the type of man you want.”
Now, after reading your book, and taking your Quiz, I realize his basic nature is easy-going, to be comfortable, and he simply enjoys life with family and friends.
He’s not the Shark type, who has driving ambition for financial success.
If I had realized who he really is, I could have enjoyed the life we were creating together.
Instead, due to my own level of ambition, I pushed him away.
“I’m so sorry! Is he still available?” I asked.
“No, he married someone else.”
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